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Love at First Site
June 30, 2008
It was always a dream of mine to build a house, but it was not my intent to do so now. Sure that building would be too expensive, I went searching for my dream house with a broker. But house hunting in my price-range became a bit repetitive. How many old farm houses "with potential" can one see? Low ceilings, small, dark rooms—everything I didn't want for my country life. When Alyson Daniels of Kingsley Daniels Real Estate, took me to the lot perched high on a hilltop, it was love at first site (sorry, just couldn't resist). Who wouldn't want to live with this panoramic view of the distant foothills of the Poconos, the Berkshires, or the Catskills. Whichever ones they are, they're awe-inspiring.
My new neighborhood is populated with several same-sex couples as well as same sex singles such as myself (think of a same sex couple after they break-up). And because the location is on a hilltop, my contractor refers to the area as Brokeback Mountain. I would have hired him for that alone.
The house across the road is in its final stages of completion and commands a striking view of the Hudson River. Were there a train running down the middle of the street, I'm sure that that side would be designated the right side of the tracks. The house was designed by a highly respected architect whose name is widely known in academia. Professionalism prohibits me from commenting on it . . . well, maybe later.
Coming up with a floor plan was relatively easy; three-dimensionalizing the plan wasn't. Orangeries, 19th century industrial factories, the works of Lutyens, mid-century houses—these were just some of the images I gave my architect. Why she couldn't find the common thread that linked them all together, I don't know. Could I have been any clearer?

Plan of the Orangerie by Jacques-François Blondel

The Forest Orangerie as it stands now

The Lingotto Fiat Factory. All concrete with steel windows.

This wainscoting inspired my fireplace, which will be the soul of the house.
It took many drafts to realize that you can't incorporate every idea you've ever had into 2400 square feet. Lesson learned, we finally came up with a house that we both liked. It was the next stage that I realized that God is not the only thing in the details ($$$$$). Prefabs were looking better and better!

Front of the model. I wanted the house to be as pavilion-like as possible. See orangerie.

Back of the model.
Money plays a huge role in building a house, but it's a boring role, one that fills me with such deep anxiety that I'd rather not discuss it. Financing in place (I've always wanted to say that), construction began.

Breaking ground

The foundation
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Preliminary Plan
Years of experience has taught me that the more complete the drawings, the more smoothly and cost efficiently the job goes. Construction didn't exactly begin with a napkin sketch, but the set of drawings was and still is far from complete. Now that the foundation is laid, there can be no changing the footprint. That, however, doesn't prevent me from altering room layouts, lighting, fenestrations, surface finishes, etc. With clients I'm good with decision making, but as a client, I'm my own worst nightmare.
With trepidation, I've called designer friends for some informal consultations. Laura Bohn, a designer known for her un-waivering vision, is one friend. A few minutes into that consult, and the boundaries of that relationship were clearly defined. When I approached Kitty Hawks, another close friend and designer, she quickly reminded me that she had retired from her practice. So much for consultations.
My architect Joan Chan thinks that I absolutely must have a front door in the center bump-out (see plan). I think it's okay to have just the two side doors (see model). Who's right?
Posted by Paul Siskin on June 30, 2008 | Comments (9)
In response to: Love at First Site
Coralee commented:
I love seeing how the factory and orangerie are translated into the model. So interesting. As far as the door goes, I agree with your architect. Even if you only use the side door (I know my family pretty much only uses our back door), there's something nice about a front door for guests and special occasions. A sense of arrival. Plus, I think it would look good.
In response to: Love at First Site
Sheila Weller commented:
Paul, I love your blog -- it is witty like you -- and I LOVE your site and plans. As someone who has known you since we were very young children, and who lived on the same street as you when we were teenagers, and who later shared the resigned-renters-forever fate, I am so glad you're building your own gorgeous house in our Catskills-to-Berkshires neck of the weekend woods. It will be so chic, my dear!
In response to: Love at First Site
ENicoll commented:
Isn't that front bump out an entrance hall? No front door to an entrance hall? A little strange, but if it works for you ....
In response to: Love at First Site
Madeline Wolf commented:
Dreams do come true. Can't wait to sit with you under the stars and remember when... Madeline
In response to: Love at First Site
Laura Bohn commented:
Paul, the blog business could work out for you instead of the interior design business. You are soooo clever. I did notice that more than one person thought your front door should be where the front looks like it is. I will not go around to the back as you suggested and I’m sure that you will disregard all these comments as too bad I' don't need a front door. Love you anyway, can't wait for an invite. Will I get one?
In response to: Love at First Site
Cindy Allen commented:
Paul and Laura, I'm enjoying the love fest between you two. Pauly, Paul, I'm digging the idea of the front door situation more than the reality - your mind works in mysterious ways. More power to you! Love, The Mistress of the Salon
In response to: Love at First Site
Helen Kent-Nicoll commented:
So I sent you an email thinking it was my first foray into blog-tech and realized that I didn't do it right. Anyway, if you get this...what a glorious way to participate in your GREAT adventure! Can't wait to visit and this time it is our turn to figure out what to do with the dogs.
In response to: Love at First Site
Auntie Sharon commented:
Hi Paul the builder, It's hard to tell which of the guest suites you've set aside for us. We have a tiny casita here for your next visit the the southwest. I think the entire bump-out should be the front door to accommodate the 'heard' of friends who will stampead to visit your vision of Zanadu. I asked you for updates, but this is much better than I hoped to recieve. This is the time to keep a journal and when the 'job'is done publish, (think "Mr. Blandings Dream House" with Cary Grant). Nice to see the names of firends from long ago have responded to your blog. By the way this is my first time bloging... Hugs, Sharon
In response to: Love at First Site
Cindy Allen commented:
Dear Paul and Auntie Sharon, I'm delighted that Paul has inspired you to join the blogging world, and I wanted to share a tip that's been drilled into my head of late by my Web Director, Carrie (so you can blame her): when you respond to a blog post, it's officially called a comment. Just a friendly FYI, and I'll race you to the guest suite! Keep the "comments" coming. With warmest regards, The Mistress of the Salon



